SINGLE AND FABULOUS...OR DOUBLES AND FABULOUS.....??

The Fact Is, Sometimes It's Really Hard To Walk In A Single Woman's Shoes. That's Why We Need Really Special Ones Now And Then To Make The Walk A Little More Fun'

Are we living in the real world or a world we think is real...?

DO we fake our lives..?

Do we fake our age....?

Do we fake  to feel better..?

Are we faking dressing up...?

Are we faking style just because we think its fashionable...?

Is it ok to fake fur  just because we want to feel rich..?

Can we be  alone or do we really need people to feel social..?

Do we need to fake submissiveness to let the man feel empowered..?

So my thoughts come back to are we living in the real world or a bubble we create of our choice..we select our friends..we select  the places we want to go (strike off the ones we don't want to go to)select the cars we want to be seen in..the clothes we want to wear because we think its what should be worn 'cause its 'fashionable'...behave a certain way because thats how we get into the 'IT' crowd...the wanna be yuppie wife with her gucci bags and gucci shoes...and the foreign help in tow.... trying to promote the wifes at the kitty-coffee mornings so that she meets other rich ladies and re-invests the husbands investments...sending our children to selective schools with the only criteria being..are your parents those from  who's  who's list.....aha..holidays!!
where are we  going this summer...which hotel are we staying at...buying the latest birkin....(well the country i come from..such is the norm...)

Is this what we really want and live for....are we living a life we think we should because we have to be a certain way...

"Don’t be into trends. Don’t make fashion own you, but you decide what you are, what you want to express by the way you dress and the way you live."

— Gianni Versace

Are we faking being happy...?
Are we faking the present to get to the future..?

Amongst all this is the single fabulous girl..looking for her mr right...just as we explore numerous fashion brands to embrace the perfect sense of style..

Is that real or fake too?

i would say very unreal....there really isn't a Mr.right...we think there would be one but its just an illusion we try to delude ourselves with and we normally fall into the arms of the least expected  off them all because he's the one who stole your heart and not the one who we were conjuring up in our brains..because such men do not exist ....just as a we think we found our sexy black leather corseted bustier we fall for a flirty floral chiffon little blouse oozing more charm than the sexy bustier.

“I'm not a film star, I am an actress. Being a film star is such a false life, lived for fake values and for publicity.” 

-Vivien Leigh

Something very amusing..

My filipina....hahaha(yeah you can say my foreign maid) could be heard trying to stop my 5 year old from doing something which could surely break her neck..i called out for her to my bedroom...forbidding her from performing silly stunts...she replies..'mamaaa if you dont want us to do it..just dont look at us..."and she flung her hair back giggling walked away...leaving me absolutely aghast!!

I could not help wondering how she came up with such a concept...out of sight out of mind..and more so at the moment as i was penning my thoughts  about what part of our life is real and what part is not..was this for real or what..what part of growing up is...did she really think that being oblivious to something is the best way in not accepting it....

Ofcourse  we can very easily block whatever we want from our minds and  not think about it and fake the emotions that  may be aroused if done so...

...she comes back to me questioning as to what was I doing?...writing,I answered..another question...writing about what??..what I thought of life...she says 'i think Allah is life mama.....'

I FELL OFF MY CHAIR!!

Can life really be this simple..looking at it through a 5  year olds eyes....why look at something if its going to bother you....and we can't even give up our 8 inch heels blistering our pretty feet....
is it real very easy to let go off ones inhibitions and be ourselves...dancing on table tops liberating oneself of any physical bondage..

Are we faking progression of the minds....we think we are happy for people living in developing countries..where their lives have transformed the way a chrysalis does into a butterfly....yet we would be close minded to be in the same environment as theirs....
the same way we would love to buy a gucci bag from china town but not buy it.....because it would be a fake....which is absolutely fine....if we can buy a RM 5000 Gucci just to hide behind our imperfections..we might as well buy the fake Gucci and be called an all cheap knockoff...

Dose a single girl really have a fabulous lifestyle than the doubles.....
Her night of free partying..not being rushed home because the baby sitter has to leave....she can choose her men...and not....she is answerable to none..she does whatever takes her fancy...fake or no fake..

Is it really fun walking through the crowd un-accessorized...??

"The most beautiful clothes that can dress a woman are the arms of the man she loves."

— Yves Saint-Laurent