ARE WE SUPER-WOMEN....SUPER-WIFES..SUPER-MOMS..SUPER-GIRLFRIENDS..SUPER-FRIENDS....SUPER-KNOW-IT-ALL...??
I rolled with laughter and so did my other half who by the way does think all of the above about yours truly....just as my favourite character on t.v wakes up next to Mr.Big and lets say emits morning steam in bed...POP..pOpppPp....totally mortified pooor little Bradshaw..scurries out from under the blanket and runs out the door before Mr.Big could even stop laughing.....what happens next??
Well..the usual!!
The embarrassment....the sleepless nights...the empty no sex-sleepovers at his place...the burning desire of wanting to know whether he stills loves her or not...is the relationship doomed or strong enough to withstand...A LITTLE POP?
The point being..IS IT OKAY to let out a little steam and not be embarrassed..
one said its okay..the other said NO WAY...its NOT! because, yes men want THEIR women to be SUPER BEINGS...no FARTS please..(finally..i could'nt even bring myself to say it...)no hair ANYWHERE...and just be perfect sitting pretty all the time...the 3rd friend said...it should not be about the physical act only...there should be more to a relationship...a kiss is to be more intimate than the act of union itself...(many people would beg to differ)..this shoved carrie more into a profound state of disturbance..
An utter state of uneasiness..a jaw breaking..teeth grinding frustration where she wanted to pull her long locks out of her pretty little head.....that the love which had so consumed and put her entire being in a turmoil where just breathing was difficult and the only salvation would have been a crystal ball telling her that yes their love would finally inevitably be solemnized one day.
A love that it made her want to be how and what she thought he wanted her to be...she was afraid to be what and how she really was..afraid to show him her true self...incase he did'nt love her for the being that she was.
One fine evening at my own house...my dear and i were sitting with my newly wedded cousin and her husband playing poker and munching...i was winning...
Just as i came back to the table and lowered my seven+ month pregnant fine figure onto the floor cushion....i went poppingggg...huh..i was MORTIFIED....initially..think my better half was more concerned about me being embarrassed..my cousin and her other half rolled off the couch...HEY..its pregnancy FLATULENCE..ever heard of it??
I wonder now...
is a womans love affair with fashion same as is a mans love affair with changing his socks every weekend...you know what i mean??
is being so in love fashionable or what??
is being fashionable a way out off being in love??
Oscar Wilde said 'love is not fashionable anymore...poets have killed it'
i quite agree with it...so much has been written about love all over true love is really nowhere to be found..very rare..romance has really become a figment of ones imagination...
is love nowadays no where to be found because of people are too busy to love or look for love and find loving fashion easier instead??
Would u wait a day to buy those gorgeous killers heels just as you would wait a week playing hard to get just so the guy you pining for does'nt think you easy...
Its a lot easier to be oneself than not be yourself.
'I’m looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can’t-live-without-each-other love.'
BTW....I did buy the RM485 dress from WEARHOUSE and love wearing it for my LOVE!!
I rolled with laughter and so did my other half who by the way does think all of the above about yours truly....just as my favourite character on t.v wakes up next to Mr.Big and lets say emits morning steam in bed...POP..pOpppPp....totally mortified pooor little Bradshaw..scurries out from under the blanket and runs out the door before Mr.Big could even stop laughing.....what happens next??
Well..the usual!!
The embarrassment....the sleepless nights...the empty no sex-sleepovers at his place...the burning desire of wanting to know whether he stills loves her or not...is the relationship doomed or strong enough to withstand...A LITTLE POP?
The point being..IS IT OKAY to let out a little steam and not be embarrassed..
one said its okay..the other said NO WAY...its NOT! because, yes men want THEIR women to be SUPER BEINGS...no FARTS please..(finally..i could'nt even bring myself to say it...)no hair ANYWHERE...and just be perfect sitting pretty all the time...the 3rd friend said...it should not be about the physical act only...there should be more to a relationship...a kiss is to be more intimate than the act of union itself...(many people would beg to differ)..this shoved carrie more into a profound state of disturbance..
An utter state of uneasiness..a jaw breaking..teeth grinding frustration where she wanted to pull her long locks out of her pretty little head.....that the love which had so consumed and put her entire being in a turmoil where just breathing was difficult and the only salvation would have been a crystal ball telling her that yes their love would finally inevitably be solemnized one day.
A love that it made her want to be how and what she thought he wanted her to be...she was afraid to be what and how she really was..afraid to show him her true self...incase he did'nt love her for the being that she was.
One fine evening at my own house...my dear and i were sitting with my newly wedded cousin and her husband playing poker and munching...i was winning...
Just as i came back to the table and lowered my seven+ month pregnant fine figure onto the floor cushion....i went poppingggg...huh..i was MORTIFIED....initially..think my better half was more concerned about me being embarrassed..my cousin and her other half rolled off the couch...HEY..its pregnancy FLATULENCE..ever heard of it??
I wonder now...
is a womans love affair with fashion same as is a mans love affair with changing his socks every weekend...you know what i mean??
is being so in love fashionable or what??
is being fashionable a way out off being in love??
Oscar Wilde said 'love is not fashionable anymore...poets have killed it'
i quite agree with it...so much has been written about love all over true love is really nowhere to be found..very rare..romance has really become a figment of ones imagination...
is love nowadays no where to be found because of people are too busy to love or look for love and find loving fashion easier instead??
Would u wait a day to buy those gorgeous killers heels just as you would wait a week playing hard to get just so the guy you pining for does'nt think you easy...
Its a lot easier to be oneself than not be yourself.
'I’m looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can’t-live-without-each-other love.'
BTW....I did buy the RM485 dress from WEARHOUSE and love wearing it for my LOVE!!
I am so glad you bought it!
ReplyDeleteAnd its not that love that changes but our definition of it - as we grow older both in age and in our relationship the very essence of how we define and perceive love changes.
It is a deep acceptance of our partner's very fallible self and the comforting thought that there exists someone in this world who will love and accept us for our very human follies.
They might make merciless fun of the occasional pop, but in the big picture of a existence together a pop is just a lot of loud noise signifying nothing
i agree with you...
Deleteto me love is a collective definition of numerous emotions one feels when in a relationship...it can be a raw nail biting frustrating indescribable sense of belonging or wanting to belong as in bradshaw's case...
..it can be beautiful...soft and gentle like a breeze blowing forever..and one feeling elated every sec of the day....
and yes it can also give rise to strong feelings such as jealousy...possessiveness..feelings the other person may not be able to understand...
...i could go on and on...
By the way I am adding you to my blogroll so i can visit regularly...kisses
ReplyDelete...hugsss and muahhh!!
Deletethanks for the support ambs.love!!